Eh, I don't think you are too guilty of overdoing it. At least judging by what you post here. As for Bakersfield, I have only been there once, and it was more like a drive through experience.

I live near Pasadena, actually. San Diego is one of my favorite weekend trip destinations (not that I get to do those anymore), because it reminds me a lot of Colorado. Santa Barbara is fine, but more for child free types, since there are a lot of wineries nearby.

I also have an annual pass to Disneyland. We almost invested in the premium pass, which covers the parks near you, but we are only in Florida once a year. Speaking of- we will be there around New Years.